I read once that the heart is the commander; it is the key to every function in our body and mind, without it, life as we know it ceases. I have also heard it said, “I had my heart broken”, but the heart does not break, we tend to think that when we suffer devastating losses our emotions become so painful we that we cannot endure, or don’t want to endure. It’s not the heart that breaks, it’s the mind that breaks, my outlook on life is challenged, and it wants to believe that something is breaking, but it is only my perception, because of the fact that I invested parts of myself, and when those parts are rejected I grieve the loss. Our natural instinct is to survive; it’s only when we give up, that the mind can override that instinct. So when I say that loving hurts to much, what I am actually saying is that you do not love me the way I think you should and this blocks any future possibilities of finding the true meaning of love itself, that true love is just as instinctive as survival. Our humanness needs to be able to connect with each other, creating the bonding necessary to feel the emotion of love, but it is only when we learn to love, that the thought in order for love to survive and transcend time, I must learn the ideology and principle in loving without conditions, this is a lifelong process and I pray every day, that I learn that principle.
Peace Out: M copyright 2014