We love people for different things. We can’t spend time concerning why. It is what it is. I think when we lose a love, what we grieve is the cohesiveness of love when it’s good. But we must remember the hurt, to find the healing. When we are raw and venerable because of your struggles with love, and wanting the security of it, which there is some of that in any relationship. We question everything in our search, and all we really want is to be loved, and most of us aren’t secure that we are. The reason for that is our struggle with being enough for ourselves. So we grieve for the moments we felt that security with someone, or something for a moment in time. We have to find that belief within ourselves, that we are loved by The Power of Consciousness, that will hold us if we allow it to. We are in the center of that Power, if we can recognize that we are enough, don’t grieve. Grieving is about loss, loss is about our desires to have something or someone, and that becomes the center of our pain, the pain of losing. If we can stand back objectively, and see all that is we were given, and what we have within our self, we can see the value of having been loved for those moments in time. We can then see what we have gained through it. We have to look further at what we have, and not what was taken away. If we look at our Assets and we see the lessons earned and learned we can put to shame any liabilities created by self inflicted wounds.
Peace Out: M copyright 2015